Some people love to dance; others not so much. Nonetheless, you will probably find yourselves choosing a song to dance to. Now, you can do what many people do, which is say to your musicians, "we know we have to do the dance, we don't really want to do the dance, so what do you think we should dance to?" The bandleader will then give you three options, and you'll pick one. It'll be lovely, you'll get through it, and that will be that
But there are other options You could actually choose a song to dance to that you liked and that paid attention to the values that are at the heart of your wedding vows and your marriage. You could use that song as your wedding theme song and have it at your ceremony: as a processional, before or after you speak your vows or as your recessional, as you walk down the aisle into your marriage. You can have it at your cocktail hour as your entrance song, played in a slightly different style. And then you can use it for your first dance and plan your fancy footwork to make it really your own. If you do it right, forever after, whenever you hear "your song" your feet should automatically move in the way they did on your wedding day. Dance that song and those emotions right into your heart. Make your first dance song your marriage's theme song.
How do you get to the right song?
- Dream together what you want for your marriage.
- Pull out the values at the heart of that dream.
- Decide on the core promises that you will make to one another.
- Find the keywords in the values and the promises and get on Google
- Search I-tunes, ask musicians, ask people from different age groups.
- Make a few selections of songs you like.
- There in the privacy of your livingroom, stack 'em up and dance to them all.
- Does one feel better than another? Try it again.
- Choose your song.
- Find your band.
- Give them the song and explain how many different settings you want for the song.
- Book your dance lessons.
- Practice
- Take your beloved in your arms and enjoy your dance
Put it in your play list on your iPod It will do a lot to keep your marriage fresh and vibrant Dancing, yeah
