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Wedding Bolero

Although the classic image is of a June bride winter is also a wonderful time for weddings. But how does the bride keep warm and look wonderful at the same time? There are plenty options for the woman who wants to wed in winter. 00004000 And a great many beautiful fabrics to consider as well as stylish ways to keep the chills away. From faux fur collars, to capes and cloaks, and even hats and elegant gloves, there is something for every winter bride. In terms of inspiration bridal shops and salons in NYC are the perfect places for the winter bride to be to get ideas. Winter brides can work their wedding motif around a particular theme, even a Christmas one if they are marrying in the holiday season! So, whether you want to go for holly berry reds and icy snowy whites for your winter wedding outfit, you'll find plenty of choice for making your wedding in the cooler months a really hot affair. June is the month we associate with weddings, but many couples choose to get married at other times of the year. Of course the weather will dictate the style of the dress the bride chooses if she is to be married in the winter. Winter weddings can be incredibly romantic, and velvet dresses or those made from heavier silks and taffetas are ideal for the winter bride. And then of course there's the option of using beautiful faux fur, either in the form of wraps, or boleros. If you're visiting a bridal shop or salon in NYC let your consultant know your wishes for a wintry wedding. Perhaps your theme will be ice, or maybe you'll be opting for rich Yuletide reds and emerald greens. Whatever your choice the staff at the bridal salon in NYC will be able to create or tailor the perfect gown for your special day. It goes without saying that if you are marrying in winter; you'll want to be warm, but glamorous too. So it's really a case of striking a balance, capes or boleros are wonderful for winter brides, as they can be removed when she is inside in the warm. Also, many winter brides still like to have bare shoulders for their wedding photographs. So do think in terms of having two pieces to your wedding dress if you're looking at marrying in the colder season. Remember too that faux fur hats and hand muffs are ideal for the winter bride, although wearing a hat may put paid to maintaining a hairstyle. Long trains or extended veils could be tricky if the weather is wet or it's snowing as they can so easily get damaged or dirty, so a neater hemline is advised. However chill the air, there will be plenty of warmth generated on your very special winter wedding day.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    Where can I find a bolero pattern for a wedding gown that is not outdated?
    I am looking for a cap sleeved bolero that has a clasp in the front.

    • ANSWER:
      Some patterns?

      http://mccallpattern.mccall.com/m4450-products-374.php?page_id=110&search_control=display&list=search

      http://www.sewessential.co.uk/Category.asp?CategoryID=1281&NumPerPage=5&page=1

      http://shop.ebay.co.uk/items/__bridal+shrug+pattern_W0QQ_dmdZ2?rvr_id=&crlp=1075131065_228459_228460&UA=WXI8&GUID=6feb19dc1290a0aad535bbb5ffa209fb&agid=498667325&MT_ID=10&keyword=bridal+shrug+pattern&ff4=228459_228460

      http://bridalcoveredbuttons.co.uk/BolerosandShrugs.aspx

      http://www.pickles.no/annas-wedding-bolero/

      Some ideas from other people -

      http://www.brides.com/forums/just-engaged/thread.jspa?threadID=22706&start=0&tstart=0

      These are for sale, but you could get some ideas?

      http://www.tulipbridal.com/bridal-lace-bolero-jacket-c-23.html?osCsid=4e5598c1134f04c49ec8afdd7270cbf5

      Hope this helps and good luck :)

  2. QUESTION:
    Where can you buy white bolero jackets for a wedding from?
    wanting a firm fitting bolero that is shaped onto the bust and does not do up. Where can i find one?

    • ANSWER:
      white bolero jackets - http://astore.amazon.com/cheap-clothes-online-20/search/103-1920565-0435068?node=33&keywords=white+bolero+jackets+&preview=&x=12&y=9
      Hope this helps.

  3. QUESTION:
    Where can someone purchase faux fur wedding bolero's?

    • ANSWER:
      Here is a website where you can buy from:

      http://www.furreplicas.com/

      It doesn't specify wedding, but I'm guessing that you could get any type that looks good with your dress.

  4. QUESTION:
    Where can I find a long sleeved white bolero jacket for a wedding dress?
    I like the one at davids bridal but its about . Can someone tell me where I can find one cheaper?

    • ANSWER:

  5. QUESTION:
    White bolero and shoes at a wedding?
    Could a woman wear a dark blue (navy blue) dress and a white bolero jacket and shoes at a friend's wedding?

    • ANSWER:
      Noooooooo. here try this...

      http://is.bluefly.com/mgen/Bluefly/prodImage.ms?productCode=2008552&width=300&height=300

      http://blog.elegantplusmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/ruched-velvet-dress.jpg

      http://www.shinystyle.tv/Forever%2021_chiffon%20dress.jpg

      Like them??

  6. QUESTION:
    Where did Tanya from Eastenders get her wedding dress and bolero from?

    • ANSWER:
      The eastenders dressing room!

  7. QUESTION:
    trying to find a bolero for wedding?
    trying to find a satin pewter colour bolero for a wedding, ive done loads of internet searches but cant come up with anything, anyone know where i could get one online?
    regards cath

    • ANSWER:
      Debenhams or Bhs wedding collection
      www.bhs.co.uk/Wedding

  8. QUESTION:
    I need a bolero jacket for a wedding dress. I have been looking all over for them and can't find a website?
    I would like a wide selection if possible and would prefer the jacket to be short sleeved or 3/4 length sleeves. Does anyone know where i can find one online?!

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.ubrides.com/home.php?cat=521&catexp=521,
      i see the no.17 and no21 is pretty .

  9. QUESTION:
    I have to have my shoulders covered for my wedding next year. I am desperately searching for a lace bolero.?
    I want it to be 3/4 sleeve so I am having trouble finding one in the stores. Does anyone know where I can buy one in Akron, Ohio? I also have someone who is willing to sew one for me. Where online can I find a good pattern?? HELP!

    • ANSWER:
      Pattern:
      http://www.voguepatterns.com/item/F1530.htm?search=bolero&page=1
      This pattern would have to be adjusted to make the sleeves 3/4 length, but this shouldn't be too much of a problem for the person willing to sew it for you. You could then decide if you want straight edged sleeves or the sleeves in the pattern.
      http://www.simplicitynewlook.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=7_8_32&products_id=8900
      Again the sleeves would have to be adjusted (this may be more complicated as length would need to be added not taken away)
      http://www.simplicitynewlook.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=7_8_32&products_id=7889
      The sleeves in that one may be 3/4 but it's hard to tell from the top photo.
      To buy:
      http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/LACE-Beads-Wedding-Bridal-Bolero-3-4-Sleeve-Jacket-Cust_W0QQitemZ110456506241QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_Wedding_Clothing?hash=item19b7b88781#ht_5130wt_1158
      That bolero is absolutely adorable if you don't mind buying from ebay, which I've never had any problems with.

  10. QUESTION:
    I want 2 buy a capsleeved or bolero jacket 4 my wedding dress-where did you buy yours, and what was price?
    If possible, please add a picture of yours

    • ANSWER:
      I had a bolero made to match my dress by a seamstress....it turned out really great. I have a large tattoo on my back and I wore it during the ceremony to cover it to be respectfull to the church and my older relatives.

  11. QUESTION:
    Where can I find a plus size wedding jacket?
    I am looking for a bolero, or wedding jacket to wear with my dress. I would love to find something that wraps only around the arms and leaves the shoulders and collar bare. Any suggestions on where to look? Thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      Try Davidsbridal.com

  12. QUESTION:
    Where would I find a white satin bolero with fur trimmings to cover a shoulderless wedding dress please?

    We had one made by a professional tailor but it has not turned out well so we wanted to find a ready made one if it was possible.

    • ANSWER:
      What about a white fur shoulder cape. They sell them on e bay

  13. QUESTION:
    Is it ok to wear a bolero on top of a halter wedding gown?

    • ANSWER:
      that is ok,if your wedding dress is custom-made,you can tell your tailor that you will wear bar,they will make that for you,also it looks nice.
      i got a sexy wedding dress from http://www.kanaccasbridal.com/shopexd.asp?id=10098
      i let them make high in the back of the dress

  14. QUESTION:
    I'm attending wedding in 2 wks, and have bought a black and white dress,Is it suitable to wear white bolero?
    I am not sure if this is too "white" my shoes are also white and I will have a white clutch bag. Your help would be much appreciated.

    • ANSWER:
      sounds like a bit too much white - try more black

  15. QUESTION:
    White lace bolero jacket for my wedding dress ?!?!?
    I cant really find one that I like other than a satin one. My dress is solid lace I just want something to wear at the reception.
    The weddings in Feb.
    Has any one ever made one ??
    Is it hard.
    I'm needing help here so please any input would be great

    • ANSWER:
      If you know how to crochet or if you have someone that knows how to, you could have one made for you from hairpin or broom stick lace. I can give you the site to teach you how to do either one. I have used both of these types of crochet and they are beautiful and I can give you the site to see them. Since your gown is lace I would suggest you use a very fine thread or go to a craft store and look at both the yarn and the thread selection. Also I checked and if you want to buy here are some sites you may want to check out or e-mail me for some sites for patterns for the lace boleros. If there is any way I can help you let me know and I may also be able to help you with the design if need be.

      Find lace bolero pattern - http://FindStuff.com
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  16. QUESTION:
    Is a lace bolero appropriate for a wedding?
    I see a lot of them on bridal websites, so I'm not sure if it would be perceived as 'upstaging the bride' or somesuch. I'm thinking something like this:
    http://www.etsy.com/listing/62658313/radar-black-bolero-renaissance-romantic?ref=sr_gallery_7&ga_search_submit=&ga_search_query=black+lace+bolero&ga_search_type=all&ga_facet=
    or this:
    http://www.etsy.com/listing/74979842/black-short-sleeve-corded-lace-wedding?ref=sr_gallery_23&ga_search_submit=&ga_search_query=black+lace+bolero&ga_search_type=all&ga_facet=

    In one of the weddings, I'm a bridesmaid; in another, I'm a guest.
    A black dress is a requirement, at least in the case of the bridesmaid wedding.

    • ANSWER:
      both are gorgeous!

      i don't think it would be - lots of women love the strapless look but have this thing about showing their arms off and boleros and the like are a great way to get the look without baring all!if you're a maid in one of them,i would show the bride and ask her opinion (from a B2B's POV,i wouldn't mind a maid wearing something like this but i would like to OK it,if you get my drift).as for the wedding where you're a guest,i've seen plenty of women wear boleros or other little jackets,it seems to be the norm,especially for a church wedding where it is considered good manners to cover your arms

  17. QUESTION:
    My wedding is coming up this year and am looking for an ivory lace bolero, any ideas where I could buy one?

    • ANSWER:

  18. QUESTION:
    what sorta shrug/bolero/cardi etc should i wear with this dress for a spring wedding?
    http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/STUNNING-MAGENTA-LACE-DRESS-FROM-TOP-SHOP-SIZE-8_W0QQitemZ280322982271QQcmdZViewItemQQptZWomen_s_Clothing?hash=item280322982271&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1683%7C66%3A2%7C65%3A12%7C39%3A1%7C240%3A1318#ebayphotohosting
    details , images and ideas where to get from would be great.

    • ANSWER:
      i think it would look good without one
      maybe a cardigan?

      answer mine please
      http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As.UHvRLXC0UVtCri5Btvajsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090402072845AAi75WD
      <3

  19. QUESTION:
    Whats a good alternative to the over-used bolero?
    I've seen so many wedding gowns with those little boleros and while I think they look nice, they are just so over-used. Do you have any suggestions on a good alternative? A shawl is too complicated and heavy to match with a long veil. Any ideas?

    • ANSWER:
      Forget the bolero, it will just give you "heavy" look.
      What's the neckline design of your gown anyway? If you have V-neck or off shoulder or halter then a bolero or shawl is tacky otherwise you'd look like "royal" if you're tall and your gown and bolero is similar to this: http://images.della.com/wc/fash/dressimages/Fashion_BridalGown_HDBA_456_664.jpg

      Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

  20. QUESTION:
    bolero or faux fur shrug -which would look beter with this wedding gown and opera e to ask?
    this is my dress
    http://www.valstefani.com/newsite/products.php?pid=893
    the wedding is on september 25th 2010. I am going to wear an opera lenght gloves, and a birdcage-cathedral lenght veil combo( from the movie "the rise of the silver surfer").
    Any ideas what can I wear with it if the weather that day will be cold or windy? Bolero satin or lace, or tulle , jacket, faux fur shrug..... or maybe u have another idea.
    Thank U

    • ANSWER:

  21. QUESTION:
    How hard is sewing a bolero?
    I'm a beginner... and I'm interested in sewing a bolero out of either satin or lace (bridal). My wedding dress is strapless and I wanted something to cover up a little. I thought that would be appropriate.

    My question: Is this possible? Given the fact that I can only sew pillows and curtains? haha Or any suggestions for an easy to follow pattern?

    • ANSWER:
      You've picked a couple of really non-beginnerish fabrics to work on.

      Satin tends to pucker when sewn, needlemarks (so you can't use pins on the part you see, or do much unstitching) and often watermarks during pressing. It's also a difficult to cut fabric for many people.. it really needs to be cut on paper to obtain accurately cut pieces to sew together.

      Lace, likewise, has some difficulties. Depending on the type of lace, you may need to use hairline seams, very narrow french seams, or you may wind up altering the pattern to suit the lace motifs and appliquing the seam -- this is particularly true with venise and similarly heavy laces.

      Both of these, imo, would be best left to an experienced seamstress for your wedding dress.

      I'm going to suggest something different... would you consider a bolero of tulle (bridal veil netting) or organza (sheer fabrics that aren't that hard to work with) with lace motifs appliqued to the jacket after construction? You can also add pearls, crystals or other decorations to the lace this way.

      If so, find a pattern you like and go play with the tulle or organza. Learn how to do hairline seams (tulle) or french seams (tulle or organza) on the extra, and then cut and sew the jacket. Don't like how it turned out? Buy a little more fabric and try again (both organza and tulle are dirt cheap, on the scale of bridal fabrics. (Silk organza, btw, is much nicer to work with than poly organza.)) Buy some lace that goes with any lace that's already on your dress, and cut out the motifs from the lace that you want to use and place them on the jacket, and hand stitch them into place with silk thread and add any decorations you wish.

      Books to read: Claire Shaeffer's Couture Sewing Techniques; Roberta Carr's Couture: The Art of Fine Sewing, and Susan Khalje's Bridal Couture. You're looking for hairline and french seams, and the information on working with sheer fabrics and with lace. Claire Shaeffer's Sew Any Fabric also has the seam information and suggestions.

      http://www.bestofneworleans.com/dispatch/2007-01-16/lim_men2.php
      The next to the last photo is of a tulle veil with lace applique, to give you an idea of the treatment. Both the lace at the hemline and the isolated motif are appliqued to the tulle.

      You could actually sew lace fabric with the same techniques as the tulle or organza, but nice laces tend to be so expensive that I'd hate to see you make a mistake with 0/yd lace. On the other hand, appliqueing lace to tulle or organza can make /yd lace trim or a quarter of a yard of expensive lace fabric look *very* couture.

  22. QUESTION:
    Help!!!!!! I need to find a bolero/shrug for my wedding! ASAP!!!!?
    I am getting married on the 23rd of december this year! Everything is arranged and sorted...apart from me! I need to find something to wear to cover my arms.....because i don't like them and because it is gunna be very cold!!!!! My dress is ivory and i would need something that matches that! It would have to be quite a large size as i have a very large chest! So anything from a size 18-22 depending on the shape of it! I would really appreciate any help or advice as i am really starting to panic!
    Thanks Becka x

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.faux.uk.com/wedding.asp

      I got mine from this site, they arrived very quickly and are really beautiful. Good luck. xxx

  23. QUESTION:
    What do you think of this lace jacket for wedding?
    Do you like this lace jacket/bolero? What type of wedding dress do you think it would look nice with? Any suggestions and feedback is appreciated. Thanks

    http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=10195899

    • ANSWER:
      a strapless one. but its not very modern =/

  24. QUESTION:
    Im wearing a purple bustier dress with a bow on front for a wedding. what kind of shrug/bolero should i wear?
    http://www.very.co.uk/rf/vry/p.do/women/dresses/occasion/bow-bustier-dress?Nao=12&groupId=600562419&Nu=this_product&SNtk=&Np=1&SN=151+4294955675+85+4294955869&Ntt=600562419&D=600562419&Ntk=group_search&Dx=mode%2bmatchall&thisprod=600562419&N=151+4294955675+85+4294955869&Nty=1&Mis_item_id=15&Mis_item_loc_id=1&product=600562419&pageSize=12&selectedImg=A912_SP120_01_GU822.jpg

    • ANSWER:
      They offer this one as an option that would work well...
      http://www.very.co.uk/rf/vry/navigation/SuggestedProduct.do?popupGroupId=543535384&productId=521532901&SuggestedItem=yes&popup=y&openFrom=CROSSSELL&parentCategory=LADIES%20CELEBRITIES-OTHERS%20DRESSES&parentDetails=bow%20bustier%20dress%20%3A%20GB3961C&offerType=WEB XSELL&groupOfferType=GROUPED XSELL&parentProductId=600562419&parentOfferType=NORMAL

      I would personally do something a little more simple as to not detract from the dress - any bolero jacket or stole/shrug in matching purples, silver or black would be fine. Just match your shoes and bag with it too. Here's another stole/shrug that would work...
      http://www.very.co.uk/rf/vry/p.do/women/accessories/hats-gloves-and-scarves/sequin-edged-wrap?Nao=12&groupId=579587312&Nu=this_product&SNtk=&Np=1&SN=151+4294955619+85+4294966817&Ntt=579587312&D=579587312&Ntk=group_search&Dx=mode%2bmatchall&thisprod=579587312&N=151+4294955619+85+4294966817&Nty=1&Mis_item_id=15&Mis_item_loc_id=1&product=579587312&pageSize=12

  25. QUESTION:
    What color would go with my wedding dress?
    I am having trouble figuring out what color I should have to accent my wedding dress. This would be the color for my shoes, purse, and hair flower. We are having a very low-key, casual wedding. Here is my dress
    http://www.bluevelvetvintage.com/50S-STYLE-IVORY-SATIN-SWING-DRESS-HALTER-STYLE-WITH-MATCHING-BOLERO-JACKET-p-1050.html

    And my hair will my bright red and bleach blonde. Also, I am VERY pale.

    What do you think?

    • ANSWER:
      First let me say fab dress I luv it I might buy it myself lol and to me with a white dress you wanna keep to the jewerly to pop but still bleand with the dress so i would peep toe silver pump or strappy heels but its all on you

  26. QUESTION:
    would a wedding shrug look right with a one tier veil?
    hi i am getting married in january in scotland and i have a strapless wedding dress and it had just dawned on me that it is going to be cold. so i was looking on ebay for shrug,shawls bolero jackets but i don't no which one to get because i am wearing a veil. so what do you all think? oh an my dress is quite a biggish one with a long train which has red in it.

    • ANSWER:
      I LIVE in Scotland so I know what you mean re the cold however im not sure about a veil and a shrug really, I would think one or the other.

      What to do is take your veil with you to a shop and try on a SHruG from like monsoon or something and see what you think for yourself. If you really need something I would think more of a nice pashmina that you could kind of drape round your arms.

      Im sure you have braved many a saturday night out here - go on you can do it!

  27. QUESTION:
    What designers make wedding gowns with a true queen Ann neckline?
    I am looking to find a gown with a high neck in back that cuts down to a sweet heart in the front. My mother is deceased and her dress was ruined in a flood. I am trying to find a dress that mimic hers.

    NOTE: I am not interested in wearing a bolero jacket to suggest the same neckline.

    • ANSWER:
      Check with a shop that carries Jasmine Bridal Gowns. They offer extensive customizing services.

      http://www.jasminebridal.com/J_1_3.aspx

  28. QUESTION:
    Do bolero jackets make a bust look larger or smaller?
    I'm going to be a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding this May and we all have matching dresses. They're silk halters, just a little longer than knee length, and beautiful! The bride picked out bolero jackets (cropped jackets) for us to wear during the ceremony.

    My chest is quite large (34DD) and so I would like to know if these types of jackets make your bust larger or smaller, so I know whether to wear a regular halter bra or a padded halter bra. Thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      They will make your body look shorter, so whatever your bust size(34dd is not huge) i think personally it will look fine provided your arms are not huge.

  29. QUESTION:
    Desperatly Searching Ivory Short Sleeved Bolero?
    I hope someone can help me, i need a bolero for my wedding dress, i bought one from BHS but go the wrong size! i need a 12 or 14, in ivory short sleeved, and cant find any, BHS are not getting any in now, does anyone know anywhere about NW london i may be able to get one?? im really desperate!
    Thanks.

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.alfredangelounitedkingdom.com/Collections/ProductDisplay.aspx?productID=473a462c-d0ee-4900-8f8b-70c3a2c9be2a&categoryID=daee5715-0160-4d59-a37d-90cc2a8a8702&pg=1

  30. QUESTION:
    What to wear on head at wedding in Italy?
    my friends son is getting married in Italy but is not sure what to wear on her head. she is wearing a pale pink/purple dress with bolero.

    • ANSWER:
      a father christmas hat is the safest plan i think. go being trendy and different.

  31. QUESTION:
    is it okay to wear a partially white dress to a wedding?
    I have this dress:

    http://www.thelimited.com/detail/soft-pleat-strapless-dress/3275030

    that I'd like to wear to a wedding in Vegas. I was going to pair it with silver earrings, white top/black bottom dressy shoes, and a black bolero. Is this appropriate for the wedding? Please answer back asap since the wedding is on Thursday. Thanks!!

    • ANSWER:
      That seems totally fine.
      Its very busy and colorful,unlike most wedding dresses.
      I would wear it :)
      (very pretty dress,btw)

  32. QUESTION:
    Can I wear open toe shoes to a "black tie optional" wedding?
    Wedding: End of June, 7:00 church wedding, reception follows at hotel. Invitation states "Black Tie Optional"
    Dress: Gold lace sheath, hits just above knee. Matching jacket (bolero cut) to be worn for the church ceremony. Husband wearing dark suit, white shirt w/cuffs, gold tone tie
    Can I wear open toe shoes, given hose is a no-no? Or, should I look for closed toe shoes? Is there a 'hose rule' for formal weddings?

    • ANSWER:
      You could wear open toe shoes with no hose. Just make sure your legs are super smooth and moisturized. I'd use a very subtle rosy nude shade of polish on my toenails, too.

      It sounds like you and your husband will look great together. Just relax and have a good time!! : )

  33. QUESTION:
    I am standing in a wedding, and the bridesmaids are looking for a small jacket that can go over the dress.?
    The dresses are strapless. The color of the wedding is mossy oak camouflage. The dresses that the bridesmaids are wearing is clover green and dark brown.. THANKS.
    A bolero jacket or small shrug would be perfect but if anyone knows where we can find one in that type of print. Any help is extremely appreciated.

    • ANSWER:
      Davids Bridal offers several styles of wraps/jackets in a dark brown/truffle color. Otherwise, getting a pattern and making one with fabric you can find would be a great option too. Good luck! :)

  34. QUESTION:
    What to wear to cousins wedding?
    Well....
    My cousin is getting married in August and well of course since I am blood I will be in most of the photos and I need to look good LOL.
    I am wearing a tailored satin light pink dress and a light pink lace bolero, I am clueless to what Fascinator and shoes/clutch to wear - I need help PLEASE !

    • ANSWER:
      Answer: First of all, don’t upstage the couple. That means don’t wear white, don’t be tempted to go more formal than you think the couple will be, and don’t dress to call excessive attention to yourself (e.g. a super short miniskirt or a sequined tie.) After that caveat, try to dress appropriately for the time of day and the setting. A Sunday afternoon wedding generally means a coat and tie (perhaps with light-colored slacks) and flowing dresses. An evening wedding calls for a suit, or coat and tie with dark slacks. Unless the invitation specifically calls for it, never wear blue jeans, even if the invite says casual. Casual in this case means your best casual, not your weekend at home casual

  35. QUESTION:
    Anyone know where I can find a short-sleeved white lace or satin bolero jacket?
    I've scoured the internet looking for the right bolero or shrug to wear with my strapless wedding dress, and I've come up with only a few choices--all of which I'm not totally thrilled with. Any suggestions would be appreciated!

    (Note: I've already seen the options at David's Bridal and Alfred Angelo.)

    • ANSWER:
      wow I'm looking through all these bridal things for you and i think im just going to buy a wedding dress so i can walk around in it all day :D everything's so pretty!!!

      okay, heres a satin shrug;

      http://www.wraporshrug.co.uk/products/duchesssatin/

      plain and simple;

      http://www.madebylawrie.co.uk/pages/silk-georgette-bolero3.htm

      this is a little white lace bolero, the dress is not included :)

      http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=124037&categoryId=11814&subcatname=Separates&spage=1&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10318

      this one says maternity but i doubt it makes any difference, its pretty :)

      http://www.tiffanyrose.com/maternity/clothing/LBO.html

      on this page, fourth one down is a nic elace one;

      http://www.wed-shopping.com/display.php3?&n=0&subkategoriaid=11&kategoriaid=&wed=&sort=&dz=

      and on this page the first and seventh are nice;

      http://www.wed-shopping.com/display.php3?&n=1&subkategoriaid=11&kategoriaid=&wed=&sort=&dz=

      oh my god i saw this and i fell in love;

      http://www.chandrikathomas.co.uk/accesories-gifts/lace-bolero

      theres this really beautiful shawl too;

      http://www.chandrikathomas.co.uk/?page_id=114

      also try this site there are some really cute little bolero things;

      http://www.charlottebalbier.com/

      thats the best i can do! sorry :(

      if i havent helped then im really sorry and i hope you find what you're looking for

      xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  36. QUESTION:
    I have a wedding to attend. My dress is white with splashes (like brushstrokes) of black & fuschia?
    which are the colors. It is like a sundress, but it comes with a fuschia bolero. It's my niece's wedding. Should I wear black shoes or fuschia? I'm not very good with this dress up business.

    • ANSWER:
      Black...you can't go wrong with black dress shoes and a dress purse with this outfit....however if you don't get the shade of fuchsia just right, it won't look good......

      if you can find jewelry in jet black, that would be perfect as well....delicate black faceted beads that sparkle.... let the white & fuchsia stand on their own. Shoes, jewelry and bag should complement the outfit & pull it together so it all looks 'together'...with fuchsia shoes you run the risk of calling all the attention to your feet...and who wants an outfit to scream "FEET!" You want it to scream "ME!".

  37. QUESTION:
    Is it proper for the mother- of- the -groom to wear an outfit that is black and white at the wedding?
    The mother is planning on wearing a black and white printed bolero jacket with black pants and camisole. It looks quite stunning but are the colors appropriate?

    • ANSWER:
      My friend's daughter is getting married next month and the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom are wearing black. It's going to be a stunning wedding.

  38. QUESTION:
    is it ok to wear a black dress to a wedding?
    i have been looking around for dresses, and cannot find one that i like...or feel comfortable in...then i found a VERY VERY nice black dress...square neckline, straps so i can wear a regular bra, and goes to the knee...is this suitable for a wedding?? Also comes with a bolero shall like thing...HELP!!

    • ANSWER:
      When there's nothing else to wear,a little black dress should always be the go-to outfit.It's simple but classic and you can make it look anyway you want with accessories.
      If you don't want to look like you're going to a funeral or something,play with color.
      Try wearing yellow,neutral,turquoise,or gold shoes and accessories instead of just black.Red might be too bold for a wedding.

  39. QUESTION:
    Looking for a pattern that is similar to this lace bolero/jacket?
    A family friend is making my wedding dress but we're having trouble finding a pattern that is similar to this one:

    http://www.bridalinquirer.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/red-accent-lyn-ashworth-gown.jpg

    Any help would be greatly appreciated!

    • ANSWER:
      I found a lot of them for you to look at but check out the one that starts out " Lace Bolero Jacket For Wedding Put in " http:// " to get to the sites easier I did a couple to show you what I mean

      Bolero Jacket For Wedding
      Explore Bolero Jacket For Wedding. Shop Hot Fashion, Shoes & More.
      http://dresses.beso.com
      Cheap Lace Long Sleeve Bolero Jacket Discount Satin Bolero ...
      Then look no further, as we have a wide selection of bolero jackets to choose from. We have lace bolero jackets and long sleeve and 3/4 length poly satin bolero...
      http://www.discountdressshop.com/bolero-jackets.html - 51k - Cached
      Elegant Satin Boleros, Bridal Jackets and Bridesmaid dresses
      Bridesmaid dresses, elegant 3/4 sleeve evening boleros, bridal jackets and bridal shrugs. Available in fine quality lace or satin. Free shipping to anywhere within ...
      www.bolerojacketsandshrugs.com - Cached
      We offer elegant Boleros and Lace Jackets for your Wedding Gown. ... After the wedding, this bolero looks great with a top and jeans, it never will go out of style. Copyright. ...
      www.shaunasworld.com/Wedding_Bolero.html - Cached
      Goregous bridal jackets. Made of satin, polar, marabou threads, faux fur imitation, mink fake fur. Very elegant, inexpensive jackets.
      www.wed-shopping.com/display.php3?subkategoriaid=11 - 61k - Cached
      Inexpensive shawls, bolero jackets
      Lace bolero jackets ... We have over 52 colors, long sleeves, short sleeves, satin bolero jackets, chiffon bolero jackets and shawls. Too many to put on our website, but ...
      theweddingboutique.net/index.cfm?...&categoryID=63 - Cached
      Wraps, Accessories, Wedding Apparel. A great place to shop men, women, kids, and baby clothes. ... Wedding lace bolero bridal jacket in 3/4 sleeve US .95 ...
      the-online-clothing-store.com/wraps.php -

  40. QUESTION:
    Im going to a work xmas party and I fear I may look like Im going to a wedding!?
    Im wearing a little black dress with a little grey bolero with some silver sequins on...some very high heels and a decorative silver/grey flower on the side of my hair...do you think I'll look like I'm going as a guest to a wedding?!????

    • ANSWER:
      I think it's perfect!

  41. QUESTION:
    What do you think of this dress for a wedding?
    http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/180736_10150092170214059_257806969058_5983107_7917870_n.jpg

    I'm 16.... should I wear it with tights or not(its going to be in may)? and what type of bolero goes with it pls?
    I'm just a guest...(the cousin of the bride)

    • ANSWER:
      That is a great dress for a wedding :D It's beautiful and I think it would be fine is you wore nude stockings. Nude stocking will make your legs look healthier and good. I also think a cute silver Bolero jacket would look good with the dress because it would bring out the silver sequins. Like this one.....

      http://marctimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/alluring-Silver-Lace-Bolero.jpg

      Or maybe a silver and black Bolero like in this picture....

      http://s3.hubimg.com/u/3958446_f520.jpg

      Then I would pair it with strappy silver shoes, silver bracelets and silver earrings! :) Hope you have fun at the wedding!

  42. QUESTION:
    i have no idea what to wear to my cousins wedding!!!!?
    hi everyone! as usual i have a fashion crises. i have no idea what to wear to my cousin's wedding in 3 weeks time. thankfully i have a dress maker who'll make anything i want.
    i want to wear a semi-formal dress with a matching bolero. but the dresshas to be AMAZING if you have any pics please paste them up
    10 points are awaiting you

    • ANSWER:
      I don't have any links, but just a tip (that should be a bit obvious) DO NOT wear white (reserved for the bride only), or black (for the funeral matter.)

  43. QUESTION:
    I need a Salsa father daughter song for my wedding?
    I'm getting married. This is a Puerto Rican wedding and I am desperate to find a Salsa song that my father and I can dance to. I can't stress enough, SALSA, not a bolero. Even if it's a love song that can be interpreted as a father daughter song as well. I hate Mi Nina Bonita, Mi Viejo, De Nina a Mujer, Carita De Sol. So please don't name those.

    Thanks!!

    • ANSWER:
      How about?
      Princesa - Frankie Negron
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fjlm1wegFv4

      Lyrics:
      (Lightly translated)

      I arrive the love
      Like of surprise
      Me sorprendio
      Your pretty innocence
      I queria not to enamor to me so early
      But one never supplies good I have rejected
      When you arrived your
      Not you reconocia
      It watches your heart
      And analize your characteristics

      2x
      Choir: Loved princess mine
      Your you are the same that for a long time I soñaba
      The flower of my garden, My adored Princess

      Loved princess mine
      Dueña of my heart
      My beautiful protagonist
      My first illusion
      Who went to me to say that I gave encontraria
      Kissing its sweet lips loving it night and day

      Hope this helps :0)

  44. QUESTION:
    What color bolero should my mom wear with her navy mother of the bride dress?
    My mother has purchased a navy like (technically the color is "marine") formal dress to wear to my wedding. The issue is that it is the same color as my two bridesmaids. I don't have a problem with it as long as i can make her look different than the bridesmaids. They are wearing the same color sheer cover up, so I was thinking of putting a silver satin bolero on her. The wedding is in September and has a light fall/sunflower theme to it. I've gotten mixed opinions on this. What do you think?

    • ANSWER:
      before reading the description silver is what i thought first of
      i feel other good options would be white lace, or black sequins
      or you could get something custom made with some patters of different blues and maybe a bit of nude
      would navy crochet be too similar to ur bridesmaids?

  45. QUESTION:
    Trying to find a bolero!!?
    I'm going to be getting a strapless wedding gown. I want a bolero to help cover my arms a bit. I would like it to be 3/4 length but will settle for full length if necessary. I want it to to be sheer...plain and simple. For some reason I can't find one ANYWHERE!!! Can someone help me?? Thanks in advance!

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.davidsbridal.com/accessory_detail.jsp?stid=2607&prodgroup=182

      The price seems right, and it's classy!

  46. QUESTION:
    Wedding dress for a winter wedding?
    Im having my wedding in winter and im looking for a dress thats suitable.

    Something simple but pretty. No train or veil. and im going to have a bolero over the top if it gets too cold

    Thanks

    • ANSWER:
      You could do something quite unique and have a sleeved dress instead of the standard strapless! I really like the simpleness of this one...
      http://www.tjformal.com/48702/539675/Casablanca/Casablanca-Bridal-Gown-1743T.html

      Otherwise any dress will do - most are reasonably thick in material and will keep you warm - especially if you have a jacket with it.

  47. QUESTION:
    would this dress be ok for a beach wedding?
    beach wedding in turkey in July, i am a guest, do you think this would look good with some flat sandals and maybe a thin bolero or pashmina so i don't get burnt

    http://buyeng.ebay.com.hk/buying/hk/display/270337093837_Cocktail-Dress-Chiffon-Scarlet-CO08002US-414FreeShip?_trksid=m38

    • ANSWER:
      Absolutely! Completely beautiful and appropriate. Love your idea to wear flat sandals and a thin bolero. Nice choice!!!

  48. QUESTION:
    Help! Where to find antique/vintage ivory bolero/shawl?
    My wedding is fast approaching! My color is sage and my theme is vintage. Lots of lace going on :) ! But I need my bridesmaids to wear a shawl or bolero of some type to cover up the shoulders on their halter dresses. Anything with lace detail or antique look to it but it must be in ivory! Please help! I dont know where else to look :(

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.etsy.com/shop/maryandangelika?ga_search_query=maryandangelika&ga_search_type=seller_usernames
      I bought an ivory bolero jacket from this etsy seller. It was about , but it was the best deal I could find on the lace look.

      http://ny-image2.etsy.com/ifb_fullxfull.5732454.jpg
      I bought her "Summer Snow" style one, with two shades of ivory. It is amazingly beautiful, I just loved it.

      If she is too expensive for you I would look around on etsy.com, the sellers are usually accomodating. Here is one with multiple listings, pretty cute.
      http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=26093532&ref=sr_gallery_2&&ga_search_query=ivory+shawl+lace&ga_search_type=handmade&ga_page=&order=&includes[]=tags&includes[]=title

  49. QUESTION:
    What to wear with satin mocha color cocktail dress?
    I will be a wedding guest soon and I have one satin cocktail dress of mocha color. Since the wedding is in November, cold... I would need some top, shawl, bolero... anything to cover my shoulders but stay elegant. It is very hard to fit anything with this color. Please, help.

    • ANSWER:
      Maybe a gold-tone shawl, or try cream. Cream goes with brown tones very well and won't clash with the bride.

  50. QUESTION:
    What colour accesories to wear with a satin cream dress?
    Im going to a wedding on Saturday and have just purchased a lovely cream satin coast dress from e-bay, was thinking of wearing either a pashmina or bolero jacket with it, but what colour to go for, does anyone have ideas? I have dark brown hair, was thinking of dark chocolate brown?

    • ANSWER:
      hi...it depends on the color of your skin, time and motif of the wedding...

      if the wedding is in the morning, your accessories should not be too dark...just wear something that would give a light contrast to your cream dress...an earth-like shade of gold would be nice. example, for an elegant sophisticated look, you might want to wear a simple medium-gold bolero or shawl paired with an elegant gold earing and a watch or a bracelet.
      no need to wear a necklace.

      if its in the afternoon or at night, thats the time you should wear a darker contrast. this is the time when you should try on that dark chocolate bolero.