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Q: My daughter is getting married in October 2008. Her and her fiance have everything they need for their home. Is it okay to ask for money instead of a gift? If it is okay, how do we word this?
stumped in texas
Answers below:
JW stated: :My advice for money hungry: "No, it is not okay to ask for money instead 00004000 of a gift. It shows poor manners. The wedding should be a celebration of love, not an expectation of gifts or monetary compensation. A guest's presence at your special event should be enough, and if they bring a gift, even money, that's great. But one should not expect it either."

From W: I have a response to the wedding question: I do believe we have progressed in "correctness". However, I still live by some older, respectful manners. It is not tacky to ask for money and it is more prevalent now than ever. I have seen the decorated money chests at weddings that guests drop an envelope in. The best way to make this wish of your guests is via word of mouth. Never, in my opinion in writing (on the invite) Let family and close friends know that the couple is not registered and that money would be appreciated. Although not expected.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    How do I cancel my membership on www.weddingchannel.com?
    I looked for where to cancel my membership but seriously couldn't find anything. Help please!!! best answer to finds it fastest. thank you so so so so so much.

    • ANSWER:
      You aren't able to. Just quit posting there and delete all emails you get from them. Eventually the account will be disabled from lack of use.

  2. QUESTION:
    On the weddingchannel.com how to I get my pic to appear?
    I have tried everything and can not get my pics to appear on my website for my wedding on the weddingchannel.com, do anyone know how to do that or know a better free website?

    • ANSWER:
      I made up my own free wedding website outside of theknot.com, weddingchannel.com and weddingsolutions.com. I went to freewebs.com and created our own website only because those have a lot of crap with them and it is way too complicated to do this and do that, when all you need to do is upload photos and type in things about you two.
      Email me personally and I can give you the link to mine.

  3. QUESTION:
    Weddingchannel.com delete help?
    Does anyone know how to delete your account on weddingchannel.com?

    • ANSWER:
      You should be able to go to profile settings and then there should be an option to delete your account. If not try the contact us link.

  4. QUESTION:
    where can i create a custom checklist for a wedding online?
    im the maid of honor and the wedding is in hawaii and i need to take a lot of things, so i was wondering if there is a website besides weddingchannel.com (i cant get it to work) that i can make a checklist on? preferably at a wedding site so it can give me ideas of things i might forget, but any site you know of would be very helpful :)

    THANKS!

    • ANSWER:
      www.theknot.com

      They have some great things for all bridal party members. It will take a lot of clicking around to find what you're looking for, but they have some excellent resources and ideas for decorations, hair, dresses, everything. I'm not sure of what kind of checklists there are, but I know for sure there are ones for the actual wedding day and events leading up to it. I hope you find what you're looking for :)

  5. QUESTION:
    What is the best website to plan a wedding?
    I want to have an easy way to manage guest lists, budgeting, and host wedding information pages.

    Should I use theknot.com or weddingchannel.com ? What other websites are out there to help plan a weddding?

    • ANSWER:
      Cant go wrong with theknot.com there are checklists and answers to all the questions you could imagine (for a wedding), such as etiquette, seating and stuff like that. You can post your registries, make a guest list, track your RSVPs and more.

  6. QUESTION:
    Anyone know of any good websites to find beautiful wedding floral arrangements?
    I'm not talking about weddingchannel.com or theknot.com. I'm looking for actual florist websites that have pictures of wedding centerpiece arrangements and a variety of bouquets. I've done google searches and haven't really found what I'm looking for. Any and all help would be greatly appreciated!!!

    • ANSWER:
      Check out this website. On the first page select which state you live in. After that, it will show a list of all florists in that state. After that simply click on any florist and their link to their official website is shown. Click on that and you will see each florists portfolio of pictures, arrangemetns and pricing.

      Hope this helps.

  7. QUESTION:
    Where to get a good price on wedding party tank tops?
    I'm sure you have all seen the tank tops with the "Bride" and "Bridesmaid" rhinestones on them. Does anyone know of a good website to get a deal on them? I just don't see where paying would be a good idea! I found them from on weddingchannel.com, but they were clearanced and only smalls left. Also, everything I read says they run small.... does anyone have experience with this? Thanks for the help!

    • ANSWER:
      Here you go. This place is great and everything is on clearance sale now!!! I bought my tanks from here.

      http://www.advantagebridal.com/cltaandrhap.html

  8. QUESTION:
    What are the BEST BOOKS, MAGAZINES and WEBSITES that would show me WEDDING and RECEPTION DECORATIONS/ IDEAS?
    I already know about theknot.com and weddingchannel.com (searched them over again and again -- The Knot has some great stuff with Real Weddings that has helped me out) and I have been looking at Brides, Elegant Brides, Modern Bride, etc. They all seem to focus more on the dresses and rings and not on decorations or reception ideas.

    We are having an outdoor summertime evening wedding next year and we want it to be in between formal and informal. I was thinking of a country (but not gingham check tablecloths and sunflowers) and sunset theme (idea from a YahooAnswers buddy...Thanks Miss D!!).

    Do you know of any books, magazines, websites that would for sure have ideas for what I am talking about or anything you think might have some ideas?

    If so, I would greatly appreciate any help!

    Thanks!
    :)

    • ANSWER:
      Search for your local florist, i.e. if your wedding will be in Sacramento, type Sacramento florist. Look for the true local florists., then go to the wedding category. There should be lots of pictures where you can get ideas for your wedding decorations and set-up. Or you can go to the local florist - they have a lots of books that you can browse from - books by John Henry, Teleflora and FTD.
      check this out - www.amfilflorist.com and go to the wedding category.

  9. QUESTION:
    Can't find the name of a designer or info for a wedding gown I saw in a wedding magazine.?
    Any other places to look besides theknot.com or weddingchannel.com?

    • ANSWER:
      www.brides.com
      www.weddingstylemagazine.com
      www.bridesclub.com
      this one list a bunch of them:
      http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Weddings/Magazines/

  10. QUESTION:
    HELP with weddingchannel?!?
    I created a wedding website using weddingchannel.com. I set our profile to protected where guest have to use a password to see it, however, I changed the setting to only have a few pages protected instead of having them all protected and now none of it is protected. It won't go back on.

    Also, I'm trying out the guest list to allow guest to RSVP, so I typed in my mom as the first guest and I tried RSVPing under her name but it says "she" has to give her email address.....my mom doesn't have an email address, and I don't want guest to have to type one in and not be able to RSVP...I couldn't find a number to call either.....

    HELP

    • ANSWER:
      Unless you're too far in, I would just switch to a different wedding site.

      I did that a few times during my whole process of getting my wedding stuff together.

      I loved weddingwire.com I haven't had any issues with them yet.

      But if you can't do that

      on weddingchannels homepage there is a tiny little help link at the bottom.

      clicked on that and a whole ton of help topics opened up.

      finally found one under some odd topic that said "contact us" with 1-800-647-7032. as the phone number

      hope it helps ! :o )

  11. QUESTION:
    Does anyone know a website where I can find Flowergirl hairstyles?
    Please dont give me theknot.com or weddingchannel.com I have looked and there is nothing there

    • ANSWER:
      Did you try Brides.com? If not, and you decide to go there, just look on the navigation side, and you'll see a link there that says "hairstyles", then they'll give you bride styles, flowergirl styles, and mother of bride styles. [And this is the Brides magazine site]

      Or you could just follow this link, and it'll take you to the same page.

      http://www.brides.com/beauty/hairstyles/gallery/editorspick

  12. QUESTION:
    Which free website can I create a wedding website and just use out first names for the site address?
    For example: www.ashleyandcorey.com!

    I would like to use our name instead of www.weddingchannel.com/ashleyandcorey. That sucks and I dont want to use it!

    • ANSWER:
      You cant get a domain name like that without buying it. I got my free site at

      www.projectwedding.com

      Its really nice and the site they assign has our names on it.

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  13. QUESTION:
    does anyone know any good life planning games?
    im crazy about games such as sims 2 but my laptop wont let me play it. i sometimes just dream up scenarios and surf the internet and various sites to fufill them such as weddingchannel.com and expedia.com.. does anyone know of any such games, or planning websites that i can go online? i have a travel website, and a wedding one, now im looking for a house one or a "life" planning website.. i even play around on baby websites..

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.plan3d.com/pages/home.aspx?adRef=GHDInstant&targetContent=homeDesign&gclid=CMv66qe75ogCFQEoYQode0JbjQ

      you can create a virtual house on this site

      I found another interesting site http://www.43things.com/things/view/808630/design-a-virtual-worldhouse-online-free-and-no-downloads

  14. QUESTION:
    What are some good wedding flower websites?
    Please do not tell me to check out any bridal magazine websites, or http://www.theknot.com or http://weddingchannel.com as I have browsed their websites several times already.

    • ANSWER:
      Here are some good sites. Hope it helps! Good luck.

  15. QUESTION:
    How are the waves in this hairstyle achieved?
    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/Wedding-Details/44714/detailview.aspx?id=44714&type=19&WC+Galleries=Hairstyles&pageIndex=1

    • ANSWER:
      Your link doesn't work - re-do it and I'll tell you.

  16. QUESTION:
    My sister and her fiance want to get married in Montreal, Canada?
    They/We live in Philadelphia. TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com do not network in Montreal. Are there Canadian equivalants to these websites, or do you know any other websites that can help us? We've tried researching it, but are not having very much luck.

    • ANSWER:
      I would just do a google search for canadian websites or 'montreal weddings.'
      some i found:
      http://directory.canadianbride.com/index.cfm?regionid=131&CategoryID=109

      http://www.weddings.ca/index.cfm?CategoryID=109&regionid=408

      http://www.frugalbride.com/

      Good luck!

  17. QUESTION:
    What is a good wedding site to visit?
    Other than theknot.com and brides.com? I'm looking for more of a variety, and they all seem to have the same thing. I tried weddingchannel.com, and it's not too user friendly (ex, I found a hairstyle I really loved, and couldn't figure out how to save it, other than e-mailing it to myself).

    Thanks

    • ANSWER:
      It depends on what you're looking for. I've found the chat boards at theknot.com to be much more helpful than the rest of the site. Their local boards are valuable at finding local vendors. I really like the Offbeat Tribe at www.offbeatbride.com. The ladies there are very creative and resourceful, and no one is condescending of each other. www.mywedding.com is another good place to look for local vendors as well as inspiration pics from across the country.

      I used to like the chat boards at weddingchannel.com which were more creative and helpful than the rest of the site but they added the video implement which slows everything down if it doesn't crash everytime. I haven't found brides.com to be useful at all. kvetch.indiebride.com is useful in some ways and not helpful in others.

      If you're looking for hairstyles, do a Google search for 'photobucket be_byte6' which has a huge gallery of ideas. (Yahoo won't let me post the link).

  18. QUESTION:
    where can i make my wedding website?
    i know about weddingchannel.com
    i saw a link to a couples website with their names and inlove.com at the end...does anyone know that one? thanks for your help!

    • ANSWER:
      I have heard only good things about mywedding.com from the ladies at OffbeatBride.com

  19. QUESTION:
    Can anyone find the back of this style?
    I found this hairstyle that I want to try for my wedding, but cannot seem to find a pic of the back. Thought maybe someone more internet savy may have luck. The original link is:
    http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/contentsets/hairshow.asp?vhl_uid=10451&next_item=400020326

    • ANSWER:
      its a very common bridal hairstyle. just take the picture to your stylist and they will be able to do it just fine! happy wedding!

  20. QUESTION:
    Tips on finding a wedding florist?
    The florists listed on Knot.com and Weddingchannel.com seem so expensive. Are there other resources I can check out? I'm looking for a talented florist in the Los Angeles area.

    • ANSWER:
      I found my florist on TheKnot. Usually even the ones you think are going to be expensive will work with you. They know not everyone has an unlimited floral budget. Just be honest with them and say, I can only spend XYZ$ at most, what can we do with that? The key to saving $$ on flowers is to purchase only what will be IN season at the time of your wedding. If they have to import tropical orchids from Brazil or special Dutch tulips, trust me, it is going to cost a bundle. Incidentally, I'm in an area that, like Los Angeles, is sky high when it comes to weddings...NY, so I understand the need to save here and there. The florist I'm dealing with is used to these 200 thousand dollar affairs where the flower budget is like 15-20 grand. But I told her that I would be spending 5K at most, and she has done a fabulous job so far, stearing me towards flowers that are a little less expensive, but have the same look I am going for. Best of luck to you!

  21. QUESTION:
    Bridesmaid dresses- help me find these pleeease!?
    Does anyone know who these bridesmaid dresses are by??

    Thanks!!

    http://weddings.weddingchannel.com/wedding-planning-ideas/who-got-married/September-2009/Rory-and-amanda-wedding-belle-haven-club-greenwich-ct.aspx

    • ANSWER:
      Hmm. I tried looking for that dress on Shiny Orb. I don't see the exact ones. On the other hand, there are a ton of other similar length, strapless dresses that look great in blue? You can check them out at the link below. Sorry but good luck!

  22. QUESTION:
    what are the best wedding websites?
    other than the weddingchannel.com and theknot.com

    • ANSWER:
      www.bestweddingsites.com
      www.wedquarters.com
      http://www.wedding-websites.net/couples/wedding_websites.asp
      http://www.topweddingsites.com/
      The Knot is a good wedding sources also. It's really popular.
      Good Luck and Best Wishes

  23. QUESTION:
    Why is it that some wedding dresses?
    Why is it that some wedding dress (like the ones I've been looking at on weddingchannel.com) look like they've been attacked by Shredder (off the teenage mutant ninja turtles)?
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/23940873@N03/sets/72157603948600848/detail/

    This is what I'm talking about.

    • ANSWER:
      It's the new style!!! Yeah I just got married in july '06 and I was thinking, WOW ugly to alot of dresses I tried on.!!!
      But It is the new style, however I have 3 dresses if you are interested, contact me lol!!!

  24. QUESTION:
    Does anybody know where I can buy this favor at or know how I could make it?
    I just found this on weddingchannel.com but it doesn't say how to do it or where you can get it at. I was wondering if anybody had a clue and could help me? Thanks!

    http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/contentsets/favorshow.asp?vhl_uid=337074486&prev_item=400050742

    • ANSWER:
      Here you go! http://www.happilyfavorafter.com/Favor/Chocolate/wedding-menu-card.html

      best wishes!

  25. QUESTION:
    Houston wedding ceremony & reception for 700+ people?
    I am looking for a place to hold a wedding ceremony & reception (hall or or large home/hotel) for 700+ people. I am already aware of weddingchannel.com, Safari Texas Ballroom, theknot.com, myhoustonwedding.com & wedding-reception-banquet-halls.com. Just wondering if any professionals or locals know of any places by name. If they accept outside caterers (Indian or vegetarian) that would be great too. thank you

    • ANSWER:
      Try Hilton at 1600 Lamar in Houston

  26. QUESTION:
    Where can I find these favors?
    I am doing cd favors and love this look. Any idea where I can purchase it? If by any chance the link sends you to the wrong page, you should be on picture 17 of 20, the cd die-cuts. Thanks for the help!!

    http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/contentsets/favorshow.asp?vhl_uid=337074487&prev_item=400050563
    Juleeann---I am thrilled! Thanks for the quick and perfect response to my question! :)

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.weddingfavorites.com/PTLENV-p-wedding-cd-covers.html

      And the same company has these if you wanted to have something a little different as well:
      http://www.weddingfavorites.com/MNPTLE-p-wedding-favor-bags.html
      (there are like petal envelope favor bags?.

      These might work too:
      http://www.paper-source.com/cgi-bin/paper/34325130?cm_id=8610.10

      Apparently these are popular right now. Hope this helps, I really like them, good luck!

      No problem Pgybnks! I am so happy I could help. Congrats on the marriage, btw.

  27. QUESTION:
    Which dress do you like best?
    I found these dresses, which one looks best?

    http://www.weddingchannel.com/search/fashionSearch.action?poffset=1&pidx=28&eneQueryString=No%3D28%2628%26Nr%3DAND%2528207%2529%26Nn%3D12%26Ns%3DTIER%257c1%257c%257cRANK%257c1%26N%3D4294941843%2B4294939637%26Nty%3D1&t=150&s=214&pageSize=1&poffset=1&pmode=lrg&extraRecFilter=196,207

    http://www.weddingchannel.com/search/fashionSearch.action?poffset=1&pidx=137&eneQueryString=No%3D137%26Nr%3DAND%2528207%2529%26Nn%3D12%26Ns%3DTIER%257c1%257c%257cRANK%257c1%26N%3D4294941843%2B4294939637%26Nty%3D1&t=150&s=210&pageSize=1&poffset=1&pmode=lrg&extraRecFilter=196,207

    Wedding Wishes Quotes

    Wedding wishes quote are applicable in creating inspirational messages for the wedding couple. The best man and maids of honor would require very relevant quotes and wishes that create and convey the correct message to the couple and to the entire witnessing audience. The wishes and quotes are attached for use in wedding cards while some would choose to have them printed out and fixed on some beautiful frames. Ideal wedding wishes quote can be played in music in the wedding ceremony or echoed in applause. Toronto weddings have a characteristic of love messages relevant to the occasions. The wedding...

    http://www.weddingchannel.com/search/fashionSearch.action?poffset=1&pidx=235&eneQueryString=No%3D235%26Nr%3DAND%2528207%2529%26Nn%3D12%26Ns%3DTIER%257c1%257c%257cRANK%257c1%26N%3D4294941843%2B4294939637%26Nty%3D1&t=150&s=210&pageSize=1&poffset=1&pmode=lrg&extraRecFilter=196,207

    http://www.weddingchannel.com/search/fashionSearch.action?poffset=1&pidx=294&eneQueryString=No%3D294%26Nr%3DAND%2528207%2529%26Nn%3D12%26Ns%3DTIER%257c1%257c%257cRANK%257c1%26N%3D4294941843%2B4294939637%26Nty%3D1&t=150&s=210&pageSize=1&poffset=1&pmode=lrg&extraRecFilter=196,207

    http://www.weddingchannel.com/search/fashionSearch.action?poffset=1&pidx=297&eneQueryString=No%3D297%26Nr%3DAND%2528207%2529%26Nn%3D12%26Ns%3DTIER%257c1%257c%257cRANK%257c1%26N%3D4294941843%2B4294939637%26Nty%3D1&t=150&s=210&pageSize=1&poffset=1&pmode=lrg&extraRecFilter=196,207

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  28. QUESTION:
    Floral Centerpiece Websites?
    Does anybody know of some sites that have centerpice ideas?

    I have looked all over theKot.com and WeddingChannel.com, but was wondering if there were any others!

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.yourweddingcompany.com/index.php/action/createCenterpieceStyle/planId/11/
      http://www.superweddings.com/decor/centerpieces1.html
      http://www.do-it-yourself-weddings.com/wedding-centerpiece-ideas.html
      http://www.weddingchannel.com/wedding-planning/wedding-flowers-and-decorations/index.html
      http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/decorations
      http://www.favorideas.com/learn-about/centerpiece-ideas/do-it-yourself-wedding-centerpiece-ideas/http://www.beau-coup.com/wedding-flowers-bridal-bouquets-arrangements.htm

  29. QUESTION:
    whatt do you think of this wedding cake for my wedding?
    http://www.wildflowersbylori.com/brocade%20Wedding%20Cake.jpg
    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=25023&type=19&WC%20Galleries=Cakes&pageIndex=9

    • ANSWER:
      Wow! Both look AMAZING! Definitely my kind of cakes.
      Have a great wedding & Congratulations!

  30. QUESTION:
    There's a wedding & someone mentioned a site where u can create a virtual model of urself & try on dresses?
    i've tried www.mvm.com but it had no bridesmaids' /wedding dresses.i just want a link to a website which has dreses.
    i also tried www.weddingchannel.com. but couldn't find anything
    where in weddingchannel.com.GIVE THE EXACT LINK
    at gurl.com there's only a virtual model for summer clothes.nothing related to weddings.PEOPLE PLEASE GIVE THE EXACT LINK(URL)
    theknot.com has pics of dresses but no virtual model
    www.theknot.com has pics of dresses but no virtual model

    • ANSWER:
      I have really searched and searched and searched - I too am planning on getting married and would love that site as well.

      However, I did find a site for the hair-do's - thehairstyler.com

      Good luck and dont forget to share the website with us all!

  31. QUESTION:
    Getting married. Tell me what you think?
    For my hair......
    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=31765&type=19&WC_Galleries=Hairstyles&WC_Hairstyles=updos&MsdVisit=1

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=29634&type=19&WC_Galleries=Hairstyles&WC_Hairstyles=updos&MsdVisit=1

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=29604&type=19&WC Galleries=Hairstyles&pageIndex=2

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=25514&type=19&WC Galleries=Hairstyles&pageIndex=5

    Tell me wich one you like the best! Thank you all!

    Ohh sorry everybody!
    I'll post a new question with the links going to photobucket.

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  32. QUESTION:
    reception centerpieces?
    I found a photo of a centerpiece that I find sooo beautiful! Im having trouble, however, finding something similar to it.

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/Wedding-Details/49807/detailview.aspx?id=49807&type=19&WC+Galleries=Flowers+And+Decor&WC+Flowers+And+Decor=Centerpieces&pageIndex=5

    It's the blue glass jar candle votive. Any ideas where I could find something like this?

    • ANSWER:

  33. QUESTION:
    Need wedding advice?
    I'm gettin married next march so I have plenty of time to plan my wedding. I'm having a hard time finding a place in baton rouge la area that fits my budget. Does anyone have any advice on how to cut costs? I've looked at the knot.com and the weddingchannel.com but i'm still drawing a blank.

    • ANSWER:
      Hey I am getting married in June in the Lafayette area and I first of all wanted to tell you that weddingchannel.com and theknot.com are both very wonderful websites but when it came down to the local vendors parts they suck. When I first started planning I looked on there and it didn't help me at all. I don't know much about Baton Rouge but I since you have a little bit of time before you really need to book something just do some research. Go to some bridal expos and call around. You may think that the internet is your most valuable resource right now but honestly it is not. Break out the old phonebook. I promise you there is more in there than you might think. Your first thing you need to do is book your ceremony site and your reception hall to ensure your date and then you should go from there. For your reception hall look into restaurants, hotels, your local American Legion hall, or maybe your park has a recreation hall. Just do alot of research before yuo book something. And somethimes doing the ceremony and reception at the same place doesn't really cut the price at all. Like for instance my reception is going to be at The Manor in St. Martinville (I don't know if you know where that is) and I was planning on doing an outdoor wedding there too. Well to have my wedding there it would be an extra 0 plus my rental for the reception. I decided to not do it there though because I was nervous about the weather. South Louisiana is so unpredictable. So I then began looking for a church and my mom was like why don't you just do it at The Manor it will save you money. You are going to have to rent a limo of you do it somewhere else. Well you see the church we are now doing it at is going to be actually cost around 0 and the limo(which is a hummer...lol!) is going to be free with so many tuxedo rentals. i actually am saving money by not having my wedding there and I get a hummer limo. So just research all of your options before you sign anything or pay anybody. There are amazing cheap photographers out there but you have to look for them. I found that the internet is just good for getting your stuff that you will need later like invitations, dresses, hairstyles, favors, advice. You know that kind of stuff. Book all of your main things first and then you know what you can splurge on and what you can skimp on later. Good Luck! and Congratulations!

  34. QUESTION:
    Martha Stewart Square Cake Pans?
    I just recently bought square cake pans from Macy's that came in a set of three, (see link below) and I accidentally lost the instructions for the cakes! Oh no :( If anyone could please write the directions for me I would be more than thankful (:
    Thank you!

    http://macys.weddingchannel.com/registry/catalog/S%2F3+PANS/ID/30035/PID/257220

    • ANSWER:
      I think this may be what you're looking for. Scroll down until you get to the square cake pans. http://www.squidoo.com/wedding-cake-in-nc

  35. QUESTION:
    Best FREE Online Wedding Planner Site?
    I am wondering what the best FREE online wedding planner site is? I am aware of TheKnot.com, and WeddingChannel.com. So far, I've concluded TheKnot.com is the best, but I'm wondering if you know of one even better.

    • ANSWER:
      www.weddingplanner.co.uk

      www.inst.org/wedding-planner

      www.ezweddingplanner.com

      www.wedplan.com

      Wedding.BestRelationshipSites.com

      www.mgweddingplanner.com

      www.usweddingplanner.com/

      www.ourmarriage.com/planner

  36. QUESTION:
    How would I describe a ring like this?
    If I walked into a jewelry store and wanted to see a ring like this, what would I ask for?

    http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/jewelry/search_results.asp?type=jewelry_engagement_rings&breadcrumb=/jewelry/EngRings/engrings_home.asp&stoneShape=ROUND&block=no&page=3

    It's the one called Kobelli, third row, second column. Thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      I'm confused. The page "3" link above doesn't have a "Kobelli" ring on it. Page 1 and page 2 both do, but they look totally different. Therefore, my suggestion would be to print a picture of the one, or ones you like and take the picture into the jewelry store.

      Good luck!

  37. QUESTION:
    Help with picking tux?
    Gday my finacee and I are looking at wedding dresses [for her& her mates] and tuxs [for me and my mates]

    can you tell me which tux you like best, if you dont like any can you show expensive tux that you prefer because I cant choose

    http://www.etuxedo.com/designer_tuxedos/hickey_freeman_tuxedos.htm

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/Groom-Tuxedos/Men's-Wearhouse_Notch-Lapels_Black_39186/detailview.aspx?id=39186&type=29&Tuxedo+Designers=Men's+Wearhouse

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/Groom-Tuxedos/Men's-Wearhouse_Notch-Lapels_Black_39184/detailview.aspx?id=39184&type=29&Tuxedo+Designers=Men's+Wearhouse&src=nxtprvnav

    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/Groom-Tuxedos/Men's-Wearhouse_Notch-Lapels_Black_28206/detailview.aspx?id=28206&type=29&Tuxedo+Designers=Men's+Wearhouse&src=nxtprvnav

    • ANSWER:
      The last opition is very formal. I think the other ones are pretty similar except for the color. What is the color scheme for the wedding? How much of it does your bride what you to incorporate in your suit? Most brides only want the groomsmen to have a little bit of color that match the bridesmaid dresses. So that's something to consider. I think the first choice looks smart and not too formal.

      All in all it depends on how formal your wedding is going to be, if it's a more laid back relaxed informal go for the first 2 choices, if it's more formal but not ballgown formal only go for the 1st choice and if it's a balls to the walls completely formal event go for the last choice.

  38. QUESTION:
    good wedding website!!!?
    does anyone kno of a good wedding website besides davidsbridal and weddingchannel.com? im looking for one with cute gowns and what-not that i can scroll through. can anyone help me out w/ this?:)

    • ANSWER:
      http://weddingbrowse.com/ has it all, dear. :-)

  39. QUESTION:
    Who you been?I need helppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!?
    eastbridal.com or lightinthebox.com
    Has anybody used these sites? I'd like some real-world feedback. Thanks!

    I prefer Eastbridal,I bought the wedding dress on it .You think that?

    I have seen above in the forum:
    http://forums.weddingchannel.com/Sites/weddingchannel/Pages/main.aspx/wedding-boards_budget-weddings_eastbridalcom-lightintheboxcom?MsdVisit=1

    • ANSWER:
      happy for you

  40. QUESTION:
    Poll: which hairstyle looks better? for a wedding ?
    i have a tiara and a veil which would look the best
    1. http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1040/1351219172_17ccccc540.jpg
    2. http://bp1.blogger.com/_5s1xY_H1Rmc/SAOaBTO_9AI/AAAAAAAAAKM/CJCbbEWiIqE/s1600-h/jessical+alba+updo.jpg
    3. http://www.heresyourshampoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/wedding.jpg
    4. http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=31757&type=19&WC%20Galleries=Hairstyles
    5. http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=35512&type=19&WC%20Galleries=Hairstyles

    • ANSWER:
      I really like # 1 especially if your veil sits right around or infront of it, maybe a little tiara. I also think it would look good if the curls were just a little tighter. good luck!

  41. QUESTION:
    Wedding Website?
    So I just got engaged and we've already created a website (yep I am a planner) what do y'all think?

    http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/kaseyandcolin

    • ANSWER:
      cute site and pics sounds like the wedding is going to be a blast !! you guys look like a really cute couple all the best to you both!

  42. QUESTION:
    Wedding Gowns?
    Anyone Know Of any other Sites for Gowns Besides
    www.davidsbridal.com
    www.theknot.com
    www.weddingchannel.com
    www.houseofbrides.com

    somthing other then those thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.bridalchalet.com/home/index.html

  43. QUESTION:
    hairstyles like this one?
    http://galleries.weddingchannel.com/odb/themes/weddingchannel/detailView.aspx?id=25521&type=19&WC_Hairstyles=Medium+and+Long&pageindex=1 can you help me find hairstyles simular to this one?

    • ANSWER:
      cant see the pic w/o an account.

  44. QUESTION:
    Weddings??
    are there any websites like weddingchannel.com

    • ANSWER:
      http://www.theknot.com
      http://www.brides.com
      http://www.weddingsolutions.com
      http://www.ultimatewedding.com
      http://www.allwedding.com
      http://www.onewed.com
      http://www.weddingbasics.com
      http://www.wedalert.com
      http://www.weddingdetails.com
      http://www.weddingzone.net
      http://www.bridestuff.com
      http://www.exclusivelyweddings.com
      http://www.blissweddings.com
      http://www.superweddings.com
      http://www.101weddingtips.com

  45. QUESTION:
    Wedding info...?
    (eh... my first question today didn't help much, so I'm trying again...)

    My fiance and I plan to marry next year, but I know nothing about actual weddings. Neither of us will have much money at all, so it's going to have to be small and simple, nothing fancy, and cheap as possible.
    I need to know what's really important for a wedding, and any other small bits of info that may be useful. Does anyone have any advice or links that may help me out?
    I've already looked at theknot.com and weddingchannel.com, they didn't seem so useful to me.

    • ANSWER:
      Money savers:
      Get a friend to take wedding photos.
      Instead of a band or dj, make a bunch of mix cds.
      Find your dress on sale, on ebay, or at goodwill.
      Fewer bridesmaids, etc = lower wedding cost.
      Instead of a wedding cake, make wedding cupcakes.
      Have a friend/family member that knows how to style hair do yours for the wedding.
      Hope some of these help!

  46. QUESTION:
    Wedding Site?
    Okay.... so we are quickly getting to our wedding date... whatelse does our site need. And here's the link: http://couples.weddingchannel.com/wedding_websites/PersonalWebsite.action?view=wp&occ=568287391
    ps: website only allows so many pictures but thanks for your input!

    • ANSWER:
      Do they allow HTML overriding? I dont know if you or your future hubby have experince with HTML but the site can be REALLY spruced up if you are allowed to do that.
      Like something if you are able to do a Microsoft FrontPage which is basic for beginners. I used it for my site and it looks fantastic! (And I am a computer programmer, but that is irrelevant, lol) If you need some help, e-mail me! (I don't like posting my web site on here since the wed is filled with crazies!)

  47. QUESTION:
    Weddind websites.?
    like the weddingchannel.com

    • ANSWER:
      http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=Weddind+websites&fr=ush-ans

  48. QUESTION:
    What spray paint product can I use on this?
    I want to turn the silver candle holder into the bronze-ish one... the reason for that is, I can get it way cheaper online in the silver finish... Its for a wedding gift... do you know of a product or process I can use to get it to look like the bronze one? (if it helps they are made of aluminum)

    please view the link to see what im talking about:

    http://macys.weddingchannel.com/catalog/fds/macysproductdetail.action?pid=303410902&uid=300000393
    sorry that link did not work: copy and paste this one instead....

    http://www.michaelaram.com/nsite/productlist.aspx?cid=216

    • ANSWER:
      ok first off you will have to go to home depot for the exact color of bronze you want but look for a product called rustoleum and also pick up a spary can of metal primer and some steel wool..
      1~you will need to ruff up the surfaces of the candle sticks for the primer to hold on, you will use the steel wool for that.
      2~remove and dust off candle sticks..
      3~spray primer on both candle sticks.let dry.
      4~spray colored bronze on candle sticks,more that one coat might be needed..
      5~all this should be done in a well ventilated area.

  49. QUESTION:
    half up bridal hairstyle?
    i'm being a little picky, but i can't find anything even similar anywhere i've looked
    i have really long hair (below the bra-strap) and i will be wearing clip in extensions for volume only
    i want it half up, i'm torn between loose or "bumped" my fiance isn't a fan of the bump in general so i'd love to show him some pics of how it could look with a tiara (simple) and veil (also simple)
    my hair is very straight but i'm hoping for waves on the big day...not curls
    i have long bangs and my mother may kill me for wearing them out but i still kinda like the side bang - especially with it the classic 60's-ish look (kinda flat on the forehead - pinned to the side)

    does anyone know where i can find any pics that are similar to any of the looks i've mentioned?
    i've tried theknot.com and weddingchannel.com with no luck

    i'd like to be able to explain it to my fiance & hairstylist using visuals so even if it's just partially right it may help :)

    thanks!
    i'd like the bump behind the tiara - that 50's/60's classic style

    • ANSWER:
      Hmm, I think I know what you want???? Kind of like this but not so curled? http://www.bride.ca/wedding-ideas/index.cfm/2009/4/1/Wedding-Hair-Classic-Bridal-Hairstyles#half (scroll down a bit)

      other pics--
      http://pics.boards.weddingbee.com/66670.hair.jpg

      http://makeup808.com/hawaiimakeupg2/main.php?g2_itemId=178

      http://www.women-hairstyles.com/images/half-up-half-down-hairstyles1.jpg

      http://www.women-hairstyles.com/images/half-up-half-down-hairstyles.jpg

      http://www.women-hairstyles.com/images/half-updo.jpg

      these but with the hair down in the back:
      http://www.hairstyleslibrary.com/images/wedding-veil.jpg

      http://www.shopforbridal.com/v/vspfiles/photos/TI-166-2T.jpg

  50. QUESTION:
    Are you planning to have disposable camera's at your wedding?
    This is sort-of an informational thing as opposed to a question. I wanted to let you folks know that I just got an e-mail from weddingchannel.com that they are putting their disposable cameras on sale thru March 30th. You may want to check it out.
    ~ I do not work for them, am not affiliated with them, am not recommending them, just wanted to put an FYI out to my YA BTB's, please don't report me THANKS ~

    To make this a legit question: is this helpful info? Do you care? Would you rather I never post this sort of FYI again?
    If anyone has been around for a while they know I *hate* the disposable camera idea. I did it for my Aunt & Uncle's 50th Anniversary (it was my gift to them, plus all other photos and an album). After that experience, I would never do it for my wedding. BUT I know alot of folks on here are going to do it.

    • ANSWER:
      Yeah this is great information since I want to put cameras on each table at my reception.